quoting myself only because i am rarely this articulate about things relating to things in my head...

• nik: ah well, i look at them more like
• nik: circles spread out across a large area
• nik: rather than in a line
• nik: if each circle was a relationship
• nik: so i try not to relate them to each other too too much, especially my younger ones
• nik: because i mean let's face it young people are retarded